My Journey to Tubal Reversal With Dr. Berger – Part 2
Continuation of My Journey to Tubal Reversal by Lisa R.
Waiting for My TR
Waiting for the tubal reversal surgery brought on much anxiety. It was a rather long wait for me and my husband and son, Harry and Ian, too. But, I can not begin to explain the amount of help that Dr. Berger and all his staff were for me, in helping me to relax and get through the wait. When the day came to leave for the drive to North Carolina, I am not even sure I thought life was real, that this was really about to happen. My anxiety went through the roof, as I am sure everyone else goes through.
Arriving in Chapel Hill
The day we got there, I could not believe how welcoming the Sheraton Staff was. They knew exactly who I was and what I was there for, and they were there for me with anything at all that I needed (including the wonderful driver for the Sheraton, who drove me every time to Dr. Berger’s office and back to the hotel).
My Pre-op Consultation at CHTRC
On the day of my consult, I felt like I was in a whole new world. I have NEVER in my life felt so important or so special. I swear, I felt like a princess. Meeting the staff on the day of my consult was amazing. I did not expect in any way, shape, or form the treatment I was given. Compassion, patience, endless questions answered, and I was walked through every step of everything I did and would do.
Meeting With Dr. Berger
When I met with Dr. Berger that day, I just knew I was in the best hands possible. Even through the high anxiety I had (and I have a very severe anxiety disorder), I felt at peace when I was in the room with him. I had never before met the man who I was looking at, and yet, I think I trusted him more than anyone else in my life at that very moment! And with such good reason. He was just like a saint, so sweet, inviting, compassionate, hopeful… I couldn’t even make a list, because it might never end.
My TR Day
I didn’t think the princess treatment could possibly get any better, until I walked in the day of my surgery. I was the first scheduled TR of the day (and I can tell you now, just how thrilled that it worked out like that). I was given permission to take my anxiety medication that morning to help me get through, but the minute I walked into CHTRC I was taken away, and what was probably an hour felt like a minute. And how could I ever forget Lyndi or Pam. Lyndi, who was my recovery nurse, with a smile even brighter than the sunshine itself, and Pam with her wonderful and beautiful presence. I cried my eyes out right before I was given ‘happy pills’ and then injected with the anesthesia and Pam sent me quickly into dreamland. (It was one of those good/bad cries… and they were so consoling…I could never explain how special I felt). I remember being walked into the O.R., and the last thing I remember was lying down, and putting my arm out.
Part 3 of Lisa’s Journey to Tubal Reversal To Follow
Submitted by Lisa R.
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“An Angel, in the book of life, wrote down our baby’s birth. Then whispered as she closed the book, too beautiful for Earth.” -Unknown Author (currently searching)
“Character cannot be developed in ease and quiet. Only through experience of trial and suffering can the soul be strengthened, ambition inspired, and success achieved.” -Helen Keller
“It was written in the book before ever being born
Both heaven and earth would have to mourn.” -ME
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More About Tubal Reversal With Dr. Berger
November 1st, 2009 at 9:01 pm
I just came across your story. My husband and I also had a son in 2007. On 4/7/07 we welcomed our son, Wyatt, into our lives. I also had a tubal ligation (something I didn’t really want, but based my decision on what my doctor didn’t tell me). We lost him unexpectedly on 4/13/07. We so want to try to have another baby. I have sent a couple emails to Julie, in hopes she will share our story with Dr. Berger and he will be able to help us. But due to one of their guidelines, our hopes and dreams may just end there. We so need this to be able to move forward with our lives. We both feel that Dr. Berger is our only chance in doing this. My heart goes out to you and the loss of your son, as someone who knows the pain it brings on a daily basis. Best wishes for you and your family.
July 12th, 2009 at 10:56 am
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July 6th, 2009 at 8:50 am
Helping patients through their fears of anesthesia and surgery is one of the most rewarding experiences of my field. I am glad I was able to be a part of your care. Thank you Lisa.
July 5th, 2009 at 5:54 pm
It’s great to put a face to your emails. Ian is very handsome. I also remember the OR and putting my arms out. Pam put me in dreamland instantly.
July 5th, 2009 at 5:39 pm
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