My First Day at Nourishing Hopes and Dreams

My first day as a tubal ligation reversal specialist will always be remembered. I began my training with Dr. Berger during the first week of January 2008. We started the day off by meeting the patients who would be undergoing tubal ligation reversal at Chapel Hill Tubal Reversal Center.

I met four patients of different ages, backgrounds, and ethnicities . They were all very different people who all desired the same thing: reversal of their tubal ligation.

• The first patient was in her forties, she had emigrated from Ethiopia, her last child was more than twelve years ago, and she desired a chance to have another child.
• The second patient was in her thirties and her previous husband had died unexpectedly. She had children but her fiancé did not have any children. Together, they desired a child.
• The third patient,in her late twenties, had two children and a tubal ligation. Several years later she subsequently found a new partner and he desired a child with her. So while he was deployed overseas, she came for a tubal ligation and a chance for a new future when he returned from his military deployment.
• The fourth patient was in her late twenties and had several children. When she and her partner were in their early twenties they were financially maxed out and she had her tubes tied as an act of desperation. Several years later, she and her husband subsequently became financially stable and they wanted another child. They considered IVF but decided that a reversal was a better option for them. We also learned of an extremely sad story from this patient. She had a friend who had a tubal ligation. This friend had all of her four children die overnight in a house fire. This friend desperately has hope for a future reversal of her tubal ligation and was hoping to obtain a tubal reversal in the future.

All of the tubal reversal surgeries went well that day. The patients all did well and had technically excellent tubotubal reanastamosis (tubal ligation reversal) procedures. They all recovered well and went home to pursue their quest to add to their families.

For as long as a live, I will never be able to forget these women, their partners and the stories they told. I can never forget their quest to add children to their lives. For them I hope they attain what they desire.

My first lesson as a Tubal Reversal Specialist was that no one can predict the future, but if you always look hard enough you can always find a way - and someone to help- to correct prior mistakes.

The circumstances that lead people to have a tubal reversal procedure are unique to each person. Understanding them is helpful to me as a tubal reversal specialist providing their care during and after tubal reversal surgery.

Preoperative Consultation

When meeting new patients, I begin the preoperative consultation by asking about the circumstances that have them brought to me. After greeting patients and having them get settled comfortably in my office, I ask: What made you decide to have a tubal reversal at this time? Each person or couple responds in their own way to this nondirective question, often touching on their personal, social, and medical history that have brought them to this point in their lives. Their responses provide the context for the discussion that follows about their tubal reversal procedure.

Reasons for Tubal Reversal

The reasons given for having a tubal reversal vary. The most common one is that the patient is in, or about to enter, a new marriage. Often, the man has no biological children. Even when both partners have children from previous marriages, they want to establish a family of their own. Less commonly, couples who already have children together want to expand their family. For these couples, their past choice to have a tubal ligation is no longer the right decision for them. Sometimes they describe religious considerations, a change in financial stability, or tragically, the death of a child.

Tubal Ligation Regret

Many women have told me that they had a tubal ligation as a way out of a bad situation. Some did not want to have any more children while in a failing or abusive marriage. Others felt pressured into having their tubes tied by a parent, other family members, spouse, or even their doctor. Women who had their tubes tied while undergoing a C-section often report they made a hasty decision while in labor and almost immediately felt that it was a mistake.

Post Tubal Ligation Syndrome

An increasing number of women describe a variety of symptoms that started when they had their tubes tied. Most often these include heavy or painful periods, headaches, irritability, or other emotional reactions that were not present before their tubal sterilization. Many of these patients have been treated by their doctors with hormones, anti-depressants, or other medications to no avail and usually have been told that Post Tubal Ligation Syndrome does not exist. But they are convinced from their own histories that it does. A study that we are currently conducting finds that over 90% of these women report improvement or complete relief of their symptoms after tubal reversal surgery. Clearly, more research about this controversial subject is warranted.

Informed Consent and Patient Follow-up

Whatever the reasons for having a tubal reversal, it is important for patients to be fully informed about the potential benefits and risks of the operation. Equally important is the long term follow-up that we maintain with patients after surgery. This has enabled us to document and report the outcomes of tubal reversal surgery to a much greater extent than has ever been done before.