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Momzilla is actually Tracy.  She is a 43 year-old married, mother of three and is employed as a Senior Human Resource Manager. Tracy is married to Glenn who is a Transactional Real Estate and Business Attorney. In the previous article, Meet Momzilla, Tracy described her symptoms of Post Tubal Ligation Syndrome (PTLS).

Tracy is currently four months out from her tubal ligation reversal surgery and both she and her husband describe her recovery.

In their own words….

Tracy

“Just weeks after my reversal the first thing I noticed was that I had lost the overwhelming sense of dread that had been shadowing me. As I was still healing from the surgery I was less fatigued and more energetic. My mood and outlook were “lighter”. My emotional healing began quickly and the physical healing soon followed. As the weeks passed I noticed improvement in my hair, skin and nails. I was sleeping again and my fogginess and inability to concentrate improved. I have not had a PMS headache, dizziness or tingling in my extremities. Each menstrual cycle since the reversal has gotten progressively better and more “normal”. My exaggerated and prolonged PMS symptoms have diminished. At about 6 weeks post reversal I got my libido back and, for that, my husband is eternally grateful (LOL!). I was no longer feeling like a stranger in my own body. Aside, of course, from getting my health back, the best part of my recovery has been re-connecting with my family. I feel like I have gone from the evil “Momzilla”, tired, moody and short-tempered all the time to just plain “Mommy” again. I feel at ease again in my own skin and with life. I no longer wake up dreading what symptom might take control of me. Shortly after the surgery, Glenn said to me “Welcome back, I missed you…”. In good times and in bad, he and I have always “loved” each other, but, for the duration of time that PTLS held me hostage, we “lost” our connection to each other. After the reversal, along with my obvious physical healing came the healing of my marriage and my family. It still amazes me that, after 3 years of suffering, I could see relief from my symptoms so quickly. I hope, through this series of blogs, that more women and their families as well as their physicians can be educated about PTLS and know that a reversal can bring them new hope for restoring their health and their lives.”

Glenn

Aside from the symptoms, the tragedy of PTLS is that we could have ended up divorced if Tracy didn’t have an inquisitive mind and, after almost three years, discovered PTLS online. From my viewpoint, PTLS transformed my best friend and wife into a detached unaffectionate roommate. Since the medical community did not recognize the possible effect of the tubal ligation procedure, we did marriage counseling which, of course, was unhelpful at best and could not succeed since the cause of the problem was biological. With no other explanation available from medical “experts”, we went through a series of episodes of “blame” with pop-psychology reasons to explain disinterest, depression and other symptoms that we didn’t know were symptoms. I received some truly bad advice from well-meaning sources. Symptoms like memory loss also put a strain on day-to-day living. In the end, we made it through because we started with love, a strong relationship and mutual respect. I have to wonder how many marriages have ended without ever knowing the reason?

I hope that the data compiled by the Chapel Hill Tubal Reversal Center can be used to provide proof to the medical community of this syndrome because it could help so many families if doctors provided pre-tubal ligation counseling and recognized this a possible cause of common symptoms experienced by women.

This is the eighth article in our fourteen part series on PTLS and associated medical conditions. The first article of this series, Pain After Tubes Tied: A Symptom of Post Tubal Ligation Syndrome?, discusses the most common symptoms associated with PTLS.

Our next several articles will present stories of our patients who have sufferred from worsening menstrual, physical, and emmotional symptoms after surgical sterilization procedures ( women who had their tubes tied).
Readers can also view other patient submitted stories about their menstrual symptoms, reasons for reversing tubal ligation, and outcomes after reversal reversal surgery. Each patient’s story is listed below:

Meet Andrea
Meet Rebecca
Meet Praybelieving
Meet Katherine

We invite readers to join our Tubal Reversal Message board and discuss and share personal experiences with tubal ligation. We also have a dedicated PTLS forum for readers to share experiences of worsening symptoms after tubal ligation procedures.

The ligation reversal specialists at Chapel Hill Tubal Reversal Center are experts in tubal ligation reversal. We evaluate and treat a large number of women who request sterilization reversal. While most women seek ligation reversal to have more children,  some seek relief from worsening physical and psychological symptoms experienced after they had their sterilization procedures. Many of these women report symptoms of Post Tubal Ligation Syndrome (PTLS). Previously, we described medical conditions that can mimic PTLS. This article describes common psychological conditions that can have symptoms similar to PTLS. These conditions can exist independently of a sterilization procedure or could be associated with the profound guilt and regret some women experience after sterilization.

Depression

Depression is a common condition affecting many people. Depression can be categorized into several types; however, for simplicity we will focus on major depression.

Major Depression

Symptoms of major depression last for a minimum of six months and may include:

• Loss of interest in normal daily activities
• Feeling sad or down
• Feeling hopeless
• Crying spells for no apparent reason
• Problems sleeping
• Trouble focusing or concentrating
• Difficulty making decisions
• Unintentional weight gain or loss
• Irritability
• Restlessness
• Being easily annoyed
• Feeling fatigued or weak
• Feeling worthless
• Loss of interest in sex
• Thoughts of suicide or suicidal behavior
• Unexplained physical problems, such as headaches

There are many overlapping symptoms between major depression and Post Tubal Ligation Syndrome. Identifying the symptoms of depression can be easy, but identifying the cause of depression can be difficult.

Anxiety

Generalized anxiety disorder can be a common condition. Anxiety is characterized by excessive or exaggerated worry about life events. People with symptoms of generalized anxiety disorder tend to expect disaster and can’t stop worrying about health, money, family, work or school. The degree of worry is often unrealistic or out of proportion for the situation. Daily life becomes a constant state of worry, fear and dread. Eventually, the anxiety so dominates thinking that it begins to interfere with daily functioning, including work, school, social activities and relationships.

Generalized Anxiety Disorder

The symptoms of generalized anxiety disorder may include:

• Excessive, constant worry and tension
• An unrealistic view of problems
• Restlessness or a feeling of being “edgy”
• Irritability
• Muscle tension
• Headaches
• Sweating
• Difficulty concentrating
• Nausea
• The need to go to the bathroom frequently
• Tiredness
• Trouble falling or staying asleep
• Trembling
• Being easily startled

People with anxiety disorders have an extreme sense of nervousness, panic, and inability to concentrate or focus. They may have depression as well. Anxiety can be generalized (happens during most of the day without any apparent cause) or can be situational (triggered by a specific event).

Post Traumatic Stress Disorder

Post traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) can develop after a person has experienced a traumatic or terrifying event in which serious physical harm occurred or was threatened. PTSD is a lasting consequence of traumatic ordeals that cause intense fear, helplessness, or horror, such as a sexual or physical assault, the unexpected death of a loved one, an accident, or a natural disaster. Most people who experience a traumatic event will have reactions that may include shock, anger, nervousness, fear or guilt. For a person with PTSD, however, these feelings continue and even increase, becoming so strong that they prevent the person from living a normal life. Symptoms of PTSD often are grouped into three main categories:

• Reliving – This involves reliving the event through thoughts, memories, and dreams of the trauma. These may include flash backs, hallucinations, and nightmares. People with this form of PTSD may also feel great distress when events occur that remind them of the trauma they suffered.
• Avoiding – This involves avoiding people, places, thoughts or situations that are reminders of the trauma. This may lead to detachment from family, friends, and loss in interest in things that were once enjoyed.
• Increased arousal – This includes excessive emotions and problems relating to others, including difficulty feeling or showing emotion, difficulty sleeping, irritability, outbursts of anger, and difficulty concentrating. Physical symptoms may also occur.

Self Evaluation

Women seeking tubal ligation reversal may be at higher risk for the above conditions for various reasons, such as sterilization performed while in an abusive relationship, sterilizations done under pressure, or death of a child or spouse after a tubal ligation. It is helpful to discuss with yourself and your partner whether you may be experiencing symptoms of depression, anxiety, or Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome. The insights of a trusted friend or loved one help in this self evaluation. In some cases the advice and intervention of an experienced mental health provider may be helpful.

If you have had a tubal ligation and are experiencing any of the problems associated with Post Tubal Ligation Syndrome (PTLS), consider having an evaluation by your doctor for undiagnosed medical conditions. If  depression, anxiety or other symptoms interfere with your daily life, work, or relationships, then you may benefit by consultation with an experienced mental health provider.

PTLS Article Series

This is the fifth article in our fourteen part series on PTLS and associated medical conditions. Our next article, Post Tubal Ligation Syndrome|A Long Journey, will address our experience with Post Tubal Ligation Syndrome.

Readers can also view patient submitted stories about their menstrual symptoms, reasons for reversing tubal ligation, and outcomes after reversal reversal surgery. Each patient’s story is listed below:

Meet Momzilla
Meet Andrea
Meet Rebecca
Meet Praybelieving
Meet Katherine

We invite readers to join the Tubal Reversal Message Board and participate in the PTLS Forum to share personal experiences with physical or psychological symptoms following a tubal ligation.